The Three of Wands love meaning in Labyrinthos’s guide concerns a relationship's next stage, shared goals and building a foundation. Reversed, it considers obstacles, frustration and compromise. Our tarot readings offer symbolic reflection without predicting when a commitment will happen.
Upright Three of Wands in love
Labyrinthos’s Three of Wands interpretation discusses planning the next stage of a relationship, including conversations about living together. It also includes travel in its love interpretation. For your own reflection, name the next step you actually want to discuss rather than assume that both people attach the same meaning to moving forward.
The reversed love interpretation
Labyrinthos’s reversed love interpretation describes difficulties progressing and the importance of realistic expectations and compromise. Use the symbolism to identify a particular unresolved issue. An original question is whether you are discussing a shared plan, or asking someone else to adopt a plan they have not agreed to.
An example: a future in different places
Imagine that you would like to live in another city next year, while your partner has only heard you mention the idea casually. You begin looking at homes and feel disappointed that they are not equally excited. In this hypothetical example, you could first ask whether they want to explore the move together and discuss their own plans. This original scenario separates a future you can picture from a decision the two of you have actually made.
Make the next conversation specific
Write the proposed step, one reason it matters to you and one question you need to ask your partner. This optional exercise is a starting point for discussion, not a commitment on their behalf. You can also read our guide to what love tarot can and cannot tell you.
Explore a personal reading
Choose an Email Love Reading to explore a preset question. Your cards are interpreted by Lilia or Regina using Koko’s method, with three cards for each selected question and a downloadable PDF in My Readings. Compare the reading formats before choosing an option.