If you want a situationship tarot reading because you have not defined your connection, begin with what you have agreed, what you are assuming and what arrangement you want. Tarot offers symbolic reflection; it cannot confirm secret intentions, create exclusivity or guarantee a committed relationship.
Separate three different things
The guide to boundaries and expectations from Love is respect explains why unspoken assumptions can differ between partners. Apply that distinction before asking the cards a question.
As an original exercise, make three notes: “They said…”, “I am assuming…” and “I would like…”. “We agreed to meet Saturday” belongs in the first. “That means we are exclusive” belongs in the second unless you actually discussed it. “I want exclusivity” belongs in the third.
Questions that leave room for your choice
You could ask: “What might I reflect on about accepting the arrangement I currently have?” Or: “What assumption am I bringing to this connection?” Or: “What do I want to clarify with this person?”
These are sample reflective questions, not claims that a card can supply an objectively correct answer. “Tell me the date they will commit” asks for certainty the reading cannot establish. Consider your question without treating symbolism as private information about someone else.
Use the reading beside the facts
Suppose a symbolic interpretation raises the theme of waiting. An optional follow-up note is: “What am I waiting for, and have we discussed it?” Do not turn that theme into “they will choose me if I wait.”
If your notes raise the theme of choice, write down arrangements you are willing to consider. Those preferences remain yours; a reading should not be presented as an instruction to stay or leave. You can also read our guide to asking whether you are exclusive.
Choose a format that accepts your question
For a question about an existing person-linked connection, the Signature Video Reading allows a custom question and is personally recorded by Koko. It starts at $99 for 15+ minutes. Standard delivery is 7–10 days; 24-hour Express adds $49.
The email reading uses selected preset questions, so do not assume it accepts the custom prompts above. Compare the reading formats when deciding. A purchase does not secure a relationship outcome; the reading is for entertainment and reflection.